Even more about tidying

Project 333 has gotten me pretty addicted to cleaning and simplifying, so when I saw this quarter’s Tranquility Du Jour Book Club pick, I grabbed a copy from the library and devoured it. Sort of. The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing has a lot of great information in it. It really does. But oh my is it repetitive. But, it’s well laid out with headers and lots of highlighting, which makes it really easy to skim.

A lot of what she talks about, getting rid of what you don’t need, is what’s fueled my current clean-out. But she takes it a step further and says to only keep items that actually bring you joy. That’s kind of huge. If you’re indifferent, you don’t need it.

The most intriguing section of the book for me was about how to fold your clothes. Yes, I know I’m a nerd. But it’s pretty revolutionary: you fold everything so it stands on the side. You don’t stack anything, so you can always see everything you have. When I was putting our laundry away yesterday, I gave it a try. (Here’s a bunch of videos about how to do it.)

Hosiery

Hosiery

Workout clothes

Workout clothes

Sweater Drawer

Tops

Pajama & lounge wear drawer

Pajama & lounge wear drawer

I must admit, it didn’t take that long to get the clothes looking like this, and now that I’ve got this much empty space, it’s kind of tempting to go shopping. (I won’t, I’m just saying…)

I promise not to blog about this much more, but it’s been pretty exciting to see how much easier it is to keep the house clean and find what I need when I need it. I’ve got two more bags of stuff sitting by the back door waiting to be donated, my “random but not junk” drawer in the kitchen is organized for the first time ever. I took two evenings and skimmed through two years worth of magazines, ripped out what I wanted to read (a total of 5 articles) and sent the rest, four grocery bags worth, to the recycling. (We also learned that Mpls/St. Paul Magazine and Minnesota Monthly are basically the same, except MN Monthly mentions Brainerd and Duluth once each issue.)

Meal of the week: Pork Tacos

I take thirty minutes or so each weekend to plan out meals for our family and make a shopping list. We have a few recipes that we keep going back to, so I thought I’d start sharing them with you.

We get a meat CSA each month. In case you’re not familiar with the concept, we prepay a farm directly for a big bag of meat. They deliver it, we don’t get to choose what we get, but it’s all amazing, grass fed, organic, and humanely raised. And the price is phenomenal. One thing that we get a lot of is pork shoulder. I’m not a huge pork fan, so I let these build up in our freezer, not sure what to do with them. Until I found this recipe.

I’ve adapted it a bit and make it in the crockpot for those nights that we don’t get home until it’s really time to be getting the kids ready for bed.

Ingredients:

  • Approx 3 lbs of pork shoulder
  • 2 juiced oranges
  • 3 juiced limes
  • 4 cloves of garlic, peeled and chopped
  • 2 Tbsp cumin
  • 2 Tbsp coriander
  • 1 Tbsp dried cilantro
  • Tortillas (I’m gluten free, so I have to have corn. But, according to my husband, it’s great with either corn or flour.)
  • Whatever toppings you like on tacos

Directions:

  1. Put it all in the crockpot, cook until the meat is done (around 6 hours on low.)
  2. Serve on tortillas with your toppings

It’s SO GOOD.

Writing

Guys! The comments on my site have been broken and I don’t know how long it’s been going on! I’m so sorry!

THANK YOU for all of the emails I got about the planners (and the fact that you couldn’t comment on the post, or actually download the planners. Again, so sorry!)

I’m trying to figure out why everything with the site seems to have gone so wacky (my pages are out of order, comments, etc.) so thanks in advance for your patience. Now, on to the good stuff.

Writing

So I generally don’t talk about my current, in process writing too much, but I thought I’d go ahead and share a little update, since it’s the beginning of the year:

Stealing the Ruby Slippers and Finding the Ruby Slippers are both available for sale everywhere digitally and in select indie book stores in Minnesota. Both books are getting really good reviews and sales, and I’m super happy with how things are going. If you’re a blogger or reviewer and would like a copy shoot me an email.

I have a completed book, Home, that I’m shopping to both agents and publishers. I am still considering the self-publishing option, but this book is so different from the Ruby Slippers series that I’d really like a larger team behind it. The premise is this: Ashley is an accidental agoraphobic: she worked a super stressful job that basically ran her life for years, and when the job went away, she took full advantage of the ability to stay home for a while, relax, and focus on creating a life she really loved. But now, it’s been four years, and she hasn’t left her house, and her sister, Megan, has a critical kidney disease. Megan needs a transplant, and Ashley is the only option. But, even if she can overcome the crippling panic attacks and get to the hospital, she may not be able to pass the psychological exam to donate.

I’m currently re-writing (for the millionth time) Clouded. The main character’s name has changed, as have most of the details. The big plot points remain: It’s about a girl who moves to Nashville and lands her dream job in the music industry. But things aren’t nearly as dreamy as she thought. After she gets fully integrated into the industry, she’s not sure who she can trust. Or whether she’s even trustworthy herself.

Short Stories: I’ve got three in-process short stories, and ideas for several more. Nothing I really want to share yet though.

What are you reading? What are you writing/creating?

Book of the Week: Dark Places

Book of the Week for January 11 -January 17

Dark Places by Gillian Flynn

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Why it’s interesting:

Holy crap. Dark Places is one of those books that you start and you can’t put down, even when it’s creepy and awkward and you don’t think you want to read anymore and you need to go to sleep or participate in life.
*One caveat: there seem to be some editing issues. I can’t tell for sure, and I actually would love to have a discussion about it. There are places where I felt like the wrong tense, or maybe even wrong word, was being used. But, then again, much of the book is told from a marginally sane person’s perspective. So maybe that was the point. Tell me what you think.

The blurb:

Libby Day was seven when her mother and two sisters were murdered in “The Satan Sacrifice” of Kinnakee, Kansas.” She survived—and famously testified that her fifteen-year-old brother, Ben, was the killer. Twenty-five years later, the Kill Club—a secret secret society obsessed with notorious crimes—locates Libby and pumps her for details. They hope to discover proof that may free Ben. Libby hopes to turn a profit off her tragic history: She’ll reconnect with the players from that night and report her findings to the club—for a fee. As Libby’s search takes her from shabby Missouri strip clubs to abandoned Oklahoma tourist towns, the unimaginable truth emerges, and Libby finds herself right back where she started—on the run from a killer.

If you like this, you might also like:

gone girl

I mean, I get that it’s almost cliché to recommend Gone Girl at this point, but I did really love it. And the two books are similar enough that I can confidently say if you like one you’ll like the other.



Day Planners

Day Planner

I’m addicted to planners.

Paper, electronic, whatever. I don’t care. I feel like there has to be the perfect solution out there to make me productive, rich and famous. (Okay, maybe not the last two. But they might naturally grow out of productivity, right???)

I’m also all about taking recommendations.

  • Michael Hyatt ran a great big company and has branched out on his own and seems to be doing quite well for himself (he’s was named one of Forbes Magazine’s Top 10 Online Marketing Experts To Follow In 2014.” He used Nozbe. I grabbed the free version, loved it, and pounced on the huge sale they did at Christmas that gave us two accounts for the price of one. I got Chris using it. Then I realized that it didn’t really work for me either. (Luckily, they have a 60 day money back guarantee, and incredible customer service.
  • Erin Condren Life Planners are pretty. I know a lot of people who swear by them.
  • I’m a huge fan of everything Kimberly Wilson does. Back in the day, she was a huge proponent of the Planner Pad. A few years ago, Kimberly started putting out her own Daybook.
  • Etsy has a TON of options. Last year I downloaded this one.
  • The company I used to work for did everything through Microsoft Outlook (and later, SharePoint) tasks.

The thing that all of these had in common was: they’re awesome, but not for me. (And they’re rather expensive.)

(This may be my ego talking, but I don’t think so. Feel free to leave me a comment and tell me I’m wrong.) I think, as a creative professional who has to devote a lot of time each day to just producing work, but not necessarily crossing things off a check list, I have a special set of needs when it comes to organization. Back when Kimberly was promoting the Planner Pad I used the basic structure to make something myself. Last month I spent most of the week before the kids went back to school (when I wasn’t cleaning out closets and drawers and generally purging) creating a new planner system for myself. Half-way through the first month, I’m pretty happy with it. It is based on goal setting and creating monthly and weekly plans before digging down on the daily level.

It’s very specific for me: I know I can’t focus on too many things each week, or each day, so I’ve left limited room to list things. I want to be reminded of my reading and art goals, because they’re the ones I tend to shove off to the side. I don’t usually have a lot of appointments, so a skinny schedule column works.

There are a few things I know I’m going to need to change.

  • In the monthly reading column I need to add a line for the inspirational book.
  • I have forgotten about the Gratitude list, so I need to set a reminder for myself on my calendar.
  • It’s not super pretty. I use colored pens to fill it out to give it some pizzazz. But if I had the time and talent, I would like it to be a little more designed.

 

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Facebook Update

f-book_banRemember when I said I was quitting Facebook?

I’m happy to report I only experienced two little tiny bouts of withdrawal after deactivating my account.

Except it wasn’t really deactivated. I did it from my phone (through the web app) but apparently that doesn’t actually deactivate the account on the desktop. So I clicked on something that took me to a Facebook link and, low and behold, I had 100 notifications. I scrolled through them, found there was nothing really life-chantingly important, and then decided…well, maybe I won’t deactivate.

That was about an hour ago. I just finished doing the actual deactivation. It looks like this time, it’s done.

I don’t think it’s forever. But other than those two times (both of which were sheer boredom, and I had plenty of other things to do, that got done since I didn’t waste time on Facebook) I really haven’t missed it. I’ve missed friends, so I’ve been sending more texts. I bought a stack of notecards to mail to people. If you would like to receive either from me, email me your contact info: me (at) amandamichellemoon (dot) com. I’m looking forward to more “real” interactions this year.

Update Again:

I wrote all of that on Monday. Today is Wednesday. I had to reactivate my account yesterday in order to log in to GoodReads. And I had to use it today to contact some people for my job at NoiseTrade.

So…basically, I can’t quit Facebook. I’m stuck. But I did delete all my bookmarks for it and I will continue my moratorium for non-work use.

Resources for your weekend

visit-momasteryI’m starting a new series on Fridays where I just call out some of the places on the internet I go for inspiration. I have a full list of really cool stuff I want to share. Today, I’m going to call out Glennon Melton from Momastery.

As a working mom, who is trying to be a “good Christian” but struggling a lot with really disliking the Christian subculture that has developed, I feel like I fall short more often than not. I don’t homeschool, or do many Pinterest projects with the kids…heck, I don’t even bake. So basically, I’m a terrible Christian mother.

Glennon’s blog reminds me:

I am enough.

I’m not alone. Either in my so-called “failures” or in my sarcastic, sometimes cynical view of the world.

I freaking love it.

Project 333 Update

Remember when I said I was going to try Project 333? I even had my own spin on all the rules and how I was going to be even more stringent than I needed to be.

On December 29, I did it.

Here’s some pictures of the process. I really wish I would have taken a picture of the inside of my dresser. Oh well.

Before:

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During:

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All of the my clothes, spread out on the bed and in baskets.

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My hands-down giveaway pile (more was added later)

It was a long process. Thank you Grace Bonney, for some really awesome After the Jump episodes to keep me going. (BTW, have you heard of the Death, Sex and Money podcast? I hadn’t. I just downloaded the latest episode but haven’t listened yet. I heard “It’s better than Serial.” Which is HIGH praise. Excited to check it out.)

 

In the end

I kept 41 pieces of clothing and didn’t count pajamas (although, as I said, I did do a massive clean out of the pj drawer.)

  • 8 jeans
  • 6 sweaters
  • 4 sweatshirts
  • 7 dresses, 2 are sweater dresses
  • 4 shirt-cardigans
  • 2 blouses
  • 3 Short sleeves
  • 7 long sleeves
Initially it was 39 and I was pretty darn proud of myself for staying within at least the 30s…but then I found more clothes in the dryer.
I didn’t end up counting shoes either.

All in all, I’m super happy with the results.

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I put away one big bin of summer clothes (I don’t know why I stopped putting away season clothes, it was a conscious decision a few years ago and it’s crazy!) I got rid of about three times the amount of stuff I kept, going from using 1 1/8 dressers (mine, plus two drawers of Chris’s) and about 5/6 of the one closet in our room) to using only 7/8 of my dresser and about ¼ of the closet. Getting dressed is easier. I LIKE everything I kept. I’m one of those people that would change my clothes several times each morning and then often be unhappy with what I was wearing. A week into this and I haven’t done that at all. Not even once. I’ve been more comfortable in my clothes, and I’ve been complimented on how good I look several times. Another unexpected consequence: I take the ten minutes to dry my hair and put makeup on everyday too. Basically, I get dressed every day.

I highly recommend this process, even if 33 (or 41) isn’t your number. Ruthlessly cutting what isn’t working—whether or not you feel like you’ve “got your money’s worth—is a great way to start the new year.

On the way to donate.

On the way to donate.

Book of the Week: Non Picks

Not-so-much Books of the Week for January 4 – Janaury 10

Where did the idea that once you start a book you need to finish it come from? Assignments from school? I’m really not sure. But I distinctly remember my aunt telling me in high school that i don’t have to finish books I don’t like. It doesn’t matter if the book is good or bad, if I’m not enjoying it, life is short and I should move on.
I think it’s worth reiterating: this isn’t about whether the book was good or bad most of the time, usually it simply isn’t right for me. I’ve had a couple lately I’ve quit, and one I’m thinking about quitting, and I’m going to tell you about them. Not so much so you don’t read them yourself, because you might love them. That’s the same reason I don’t post bad reviews (at least, not very often.) One man’s pass is another’s best of the year. But I want to pass on the permission: if you don’t like it, put it down and grab something you do like. There’s millions of options out there.
ArtInc

Art, Inc.

I was pumped to get this book from the library. I listened to a podcast with the author and I loved the premise. i’m trying to make money in the creative field. Perfect, right?

Not so much. it was too basic for me. It has a TON of good information. It was just stuff I already knew.
creativityinc

Creativity, Inc.

(Not related to Art, Inc.) This actually didn’t look that good to me, anyway, but my husband really wanted it. I grabbed the audiobook for our 52 hour car trip. Besides the fact that I cannot jive with the narrator’s voice, it’s just not interesting to me. It sounds like he was trying too hard to sound like Stephen Covey and really, I just want to hear about how awesome Pixar is.
orangeisthenewblack

Orange is the New Black

I haven’t completely given up on this book yet, but I’m very close. I LOVE the TV show, and I love hearing about some of the plot points from Piper Kerman herself. However, none of the anecdotes so far have been developed into any real story. It’s just a very dry “this happened, then this, then I went here.” There’s actually a lot of potential with the manuscript, obviously, it’s how the show got made. It just falls short for me as a memoir.