Deadlines

When I can, I spend time on Sundays planning my week. I was able to do that last night, and, this morning, I reviewing the plan and, specifically, my blog post schedule.

And then I realized…I might not blog this week.

I have several deadlines this week and I need to focus on them, and not worry about how to fit in blogging, or spending time finding fun pictures, etc. So this note is to say…

I love you, and, unless I become the bionic woman and whip all this stuff out in record time, I’ll see you next week.

However…I will be sending out a newsletter on Sunday. So if you’re not on my list, sign up now. This will be a good one to be in on…very exciting announcement coming.

Weekly Recipe: Taco Rice Hot Dish

I considered holding off posting this recipe until I had pictures of the amazing goodness that it is, but then I found one serving of it in my freezer and ate it before remembering I wanted pictures, so I’m posting anyway.

Taco Rice Hot dish is one of those family recipes that we make anytime there are a large group of Neumanns (my mom’s family) together. About 80% of us love it. The rest go get a burger.

The name is not so great, and I get it sounds weird, but really, it’s not. It’s more like a thick soup or chili than a hot dish, and it has approximately the same consistency of chili with rice. It’s really amazing.

Taco Rice Hot Dish

8 Servings

Ingredients

  • 2 lbs ground beef (to make veg/vegan, substitute 1 cup quinoa)
  • 1 large onion, chopped
  • 12 oz tomato paste
  • 16 oz tomato sauce
  • 6 cups water
  • 4 Tablespoons sugar
  • 4 cloves garlic, minced
  • 2 teaspoons Oregano
  • 2 teaspoons Chili Powder
  • 2 teaspoons Salt
  • 2 teaspoons Cumin
  • 3/4 cup Rice (I use brown)

Topping Ideas:

  • Corn Chips
  • Lettuce
  • Tomato
  • Onion
  • Green pepper
  • Avocado
  • Hot sauce
  • Ranch dressing
  • Sour Cream
  • Shredded cheese

Instructions

  1. Brown beef and onion, (or cook quinoa with onion) drain.
  2. Add everything else but the rice, simmer for 15 minutes.
  3. Add rice. Simmer until rice is done.
  4. Serve with whatever toppings you like.

**This can be made in the crockpot too! If using quinoa, I omit the onion entirely and just throw everything in. If using meat, brown with onion, then throw everything in. Cook on low 6ish hours, high for about 4.**

Weekend Inspiration: Writing Prompts

I feel like I’ve written about writing prompts before, but I’m trying to get this post and another out before I go to yoga this morning.

Let me just break off for a moment and say: I NEVER thought I would like hot yoga. Ever. I hate being hot. I hate sweating. I hate that “Oh my gosh I can’t breathe it’s too hot I’m suffocating” feeling. HOWEVER, I don’t know why I tried it, but I did. Hot Vinyassa Flow. And it is AWESOME. I really don’t “feel” the heat in the same way I did, say, doing the Music City Triathlon in 2010 when the heat index was 108. I get out and want water, absolutley, but I don’t feel like I’m going to puke.

(Okay, that’s a lie. Sometimes, when we get really into it, I do feel like I’m going to puke. Which is why I only drink tea and water before class.)

Anyway…Hot yoga. Don’t knock it ’till you try it.

Back to the prompts!

I’m a huge fan of writing prompts. All of my short stories started out from prompts. (None of my novels so far, but that’s not to say it won’t happen.) I’ve used prompts differently over the years, but the biggest was when I didn’t have a daily writing practice, I would always start out with a prompt. Read it, 15 minutes of free writing on the prompts, and then get to work on whatever project it was I was doing at the time (probably Home. Seems like it’s always Home.) I’ve got several books of prompts and have used various sites over the years, but lately I’ve been using a lot from Charlotte Rains Dixon’s Tumblr: Inventive Writing Prompts. Full disclosure, I know and love Charlotte, she’s mentored me through The Writer’s Loft/MTSU Write program and I’ve read her books and she’s just plain awesome. Which is why I highly recommend you check out the blog. Grab a prompt, and write. If nothing else, it will transport you for a good 10-15 minutes…or however long you decide to let the words flow.

A note about using prompts:

First, there are no real rules here. These are just my suggestions.

  1. Set a timer. It’s like meditation. Start with 5 minutes or so and work your way up.
  2. Write long hand or on the computer. It really doesn’t matter.
  3. Block all distractions. (Okay, so this one really is a rule.) If you’re on the computer, shut off your internet. If you’re long hand, shut off your phone. It’s only 5-15 minutes. You can do it.
  4. Don’t sensor yourself. Most of the writing you do with prompts will never see the light of day. It’s just an exercise. Just let the words flow out of your hand/fingers.
  5. If you have a work-in-progress, by all means, use the characters if it makes sense. If it doesn’t, don’t.
  6. Let yourself chose between two or three prompts, but don’t spend any more than a minute or two deciding. I’ve quite effectively wasted my writing time trying to decide which prompt to start with. Just pick one and go.
  7. Never, never, never, never, never for the love of all that’s holy never give your unpolished prompt writing to a critique group. First of all, it’s not fair to you. You’re not going to get good feedback on an unedited piece. Second, it’s not a good use of your partners’ time. If you like what you’ve written, awesome. Polish that baby up and distribute it. If you give out the raw meat, you’re going to lose the beauty in the unedited process because you’re going to get self-conscious.
  8. JUST DO IT. (TM) Nike
Photo by Captain Crunch

Book of the Week: The Night Circus

Book of the Week for March 2 – March 8

The Night Circus

The Night Circus

Why it’s interesting:

I read this book a couple years ago and it has remained on my “To Read Again” list ever since. (Occassionally it’s also on my “To Read Again” shelf, but, often, it’s loaned out.

First of all, from a reader perspective, this is one of those books that sucks you so deeply into this other world so quickly that you forget you have a life outside of it.

Then, from a writer’s perspective, HOLY COW. I mean…HOW???? The chronology of the book is so messed up. And it works. SO WELL! And Morgenstern does alternating point-of-view in a completely new way. The reason I want to read it again is to pick apart the seams and see how she made this thing. I want to study it with a microscope and an X-ray. But it’s so hard to do because it’s SO GOOD you just get sucked into it and forget that you’re trying to study.

(I’d imagine that’s what life is like for people who want to make movies.)

The blurb:

The circus arrives without warning. No announcements precede it. It is simply there, when yesterday it was not. Within the black-and-white striped canvas tents is an utterly unique experience full of breathtaking amazements. It is called Le Cirque des Rêves, and it is only open at night.

But behind the scenes, a fierce competition is underway—a duel between two young magicians, Celia and Marco, who have been trained since childhood expressly for this purpose by their mercurial instructors. Unbeknownst to them, this is a game in which only one can be left standing, and the circus is but the stage for a remarkable battle of imagination and will. Despite themselves, however, Celia and Marco tumble headfirst into love—a deep, magical love that makes the lights flicker and the room grow warm whenever they so much as brush hands.

True love or not, the game must play out, and the fates of everyone involved, from the cast of extraordinary circus per­formers to the patrons, hang in the balance, suspended as precariously as the daring acrobats overhead.

Written in rich, seductive prose, this spell-casting novel is a feast for the senses and the heart.

Also exciting, when I was googling the info I needed for this post, the first hit was for the movie. Which means it’s coming. So read the book now before it’s too popular to get from the library again!

March Goals Check-in

2015-01-023How are your New Year’s Resolutions/Goals going?

I’m not going to do a full recap like I did last month, I’m saving that for my newsletter this month. (What? You don’t get my newsletter? Put your email in that fun little box on the right. I send out updates once a month and promise not to SPAM you (or sell your info, ever) but I do sometimes send out fun news about giveaways (and goals!) that I don’t post here.) But I will say, overall, February was NOT as productive as January. By a long shot.

Here’s a few things I struggled with in February and my plan to fix them in March:

Reading: I did not meet my goals for most reading categories. So, I’ll be watching less TV (darn West Wing!) and reading more.

Writing: I’m not where I want to be with my current work in progress. The re-write is much more extensive than I expected it to be, and it’s taking forever. Plus, I’ve let life circumstances make it harder to get stuff done. So I’m putting a new focus on it this month. Which goes along with reading—the more I read, the better and faster I write. Funny how that works.

Completing my planner each day: This really fell off in the middle of the month, when the circumstances that kept me from being really productive with my writing were in full swing. I revised them again last night and have completed my plan for March. However, something happened in printing and only half of the month printed, but that’s okay. I am thinking of changing the size and doing the days as half sheets rather than whole pages. That’ll take some work in InDesign, so by the middle of the month I should have them ready to go. Anyone out there using Passion Planne, Erin Condren or Kimberly Wilson? I’d love to hear how it’s going for you (still trying to decide if doing it myself is worth it. So far, I am pretty happy with it.)

I will say, with all of this, though:

Tracking my progress each month, while sometimes frustrating, is really motivating.

I’m seeing exactly where I’m letting things get away from me, and, once I stop beating myself up about it, I’m proud of my ability to quickly course correct.

How about you? Are you tracking your progress? What exciting developments are happening in your life?

Weekend Inspiration: Google Art Project

the-starry-night-vincent-van-gogh-close-upTake a moment, go to Google Art Project, and bookmark it. While you’re there, look up your favorite piece of art and zoom in.

(Go, right now. I’ll still be here when you get back.)

Okay. How much time has gone by? Hours? Days?

Yeah. I know.

IT’S LIKE SEEING THE PAINTINGS IN PERSON, AND GETTING CLOSER THAN THAT LITTLE MUSEUM LINE WILL LET YOU. And then, someday, when they add “touch” technology…

Which paintings are your favorites? I actually found Google Art Project from a link posted on pinterest of the moon from The Starry Night (the picture above.) It is everything.

–Full disclosure, I’ve been looking at paintings for a while instead of finishing this blog post. It feels a little bit like I just had an artist date.–

By the way, while we’re talking about art, have you seen the Blue/Black White/Gold dress debate? It has completely altered my perception of reality and color and now I just don’t trust my eyes.

Book of the Week: The Glass Castle

Book of the Week for February 23 – March 1

The Glass Castle: A Memoir

Glass Castle

Why it’s interesting:

Jeannette Walls grew up poor. Very, very poor. Her father’s alcoholism and her mother’s pride meant that she and her three siblings were often hungry and dirty. However, they were loved, and loved well (except for the food and shelter part.) Her parents prized creativity, knowledge, and free thinking above any material possessions. And even when her father was doing horrifically careless things, the love they felt was undeniable. She does a masterful job creating a full picture of all of her “characters”— contradictions and all.

The blurb:

Jeannette Walls grew up with parents whose ideals and stubborn nonconformity were both their curse and their salvation. Rex and Rose Mary Walls had four children. In the beginning, they lived like nomads, moving among Southwest desert towns, camping in the mountains. Rex was a charismatic, brilliant man who, when sober, captured his children’s imagination, teaching them physics, geology, and above all, how to embrace life fearlessly. Rose Mary, who painted and wrote and couldn’t stand the responsibility of providing for her family, called herself an “excitement addict.” Cooking a meal that would be consumed in fifteen minutes had no appeal when she could make a painting that might last forever.

Later, when the money ran out, or the romance of the wandering life faded, the Walls retreated to the dismal West Virginia mining town — and the family — Rex Walls had done everything he could to escape. He drank. He stole the grocery money and disappeared for days. As the dysfunction of the family escalated, Jeannette and her brother and sisters had to fend for themselves, supporting one another as they weathered their parents’ betrayals and, finally, found the resources and will to leave home.

What is so astonishing about Jeannette Walls is not just that she had the guts and tenacity and intelligence to get out, but that she describes her parents with such deep affection and generosity. Hers is a story of triumph against all odds, but also a tender, moving tale of unconditional love in a family that despite its profound flaws gave her the fiery determination to carve out a successful life on her own terms.

For two decades, Jeannette Walls hid her roots. Now she tells her own story. A regular contributor to MSNBC.com, she lives in New York and Long Island and is married to the writer John Taylor.

Did you like this book? What are you reading right now?

Thursday Recipes: Resse’s Eggs

Have you found Chocolate Covered Katie’s blog yet? Because, if you haven’t, go. Now. I’ll wait.

K. Back now?Is it days later? Which ones did you make?

Last Saturday, Valentine’s Day, I made Katie’s Ultimate Brownies (in the Cookbook. Buy it. It’s happiness between two covers) and the Imitation Reese’s Eggs.

I can’t reprint the whole recipe here because I respect Katie’s copyright. However, I will tell you this:

Rather than roll and dip, I made these in a mini-muffin pan. I doubled the recipe and got 12 cups. Next time, I would double the chocolate but not the filling, and make it into 15 or 18. They were a bit thick, rich, and the calorie count was higher than I really wanted.

Total time to make these: about 10 minutes. Amazing.

Now. Go. Eat and be happy.

 

**Sorry I don’t have a picture. We ate them too fast.**

Book of the Week: Go the F**k to Sleep

Book of the Week for February 16 – February 22

Go the F**k to Sleep

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Why it’s interesting:

Have a kid? Ever been tired? Then, yeah, this book is for you. I highly recommend downloading both the Kindle version and the Audible version. Put the screaming kid in its room. Pour yourself a big glass of wine. Put your headphones in. And enjoy.

Caveat: Eventually, the book will be over and the kid that refuses to go to sleep will probably still be screaming. But you won’t be quite so on the verge of tears yourself.

The blurb:

Go the F**k to Sleep is a bedtime book for parents who live in the real world, where a few snoozing kitties and cutesy rhymes don’t always send a toddler sailing blissfully off to dreamland. Profane, affectionate, and radically honest, it captures the familiar—and unspoken—tribulations of putting your little angel down for the night. Beautiful, subversive, and pants-wettingly funny, Go the Fuck to Sleep is a book for parents new, old, and expectant. You probably should not read it to your children.

If you like this, you might also like:

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Austin Kleon: Jurassic Park Theory of Parenting

 

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